Cultural Differences of the Philippines from Other Parts of Asia that Travelers Should Know
Because the Philippines isn’t widely known as a tourist destination yet, finding information about cultural differences and general etiquette may not be as easy as finding information about more popular places in Asia. For instance, in China and Japan the China River Cruise and the attractions of Tokyo are more popular than ever. Whether you are familiar with the etiquette and differences of Asia or not, knowing the specific differences of the Philippines can help make your trip be a much more pleasant and less stressful experience.
Meetings and Greetings
Although some other Asian countries prefer to avoid shaking hands and bow their heads instead, Filipinos usually shake hands with a warm smile. Handshakes shouldn’t be too firm but more friendly. Like other Asian countries, much respect should be paid to elders so you should greet the elderly first. Instead of first names, you should always use academic or professional titles before their surname and you may be granted permission to use the person’s first name afterward. Hugs and kisses are usually only exchanged by female friends who know each other well. Handshakes should be given again when saying goodbye.
Dining
Instead of the popular chopsticks that are often associated with Asian countries, a fork and spoon are used during meals. But you may have to use the fork and spoon in a way that you may not be used to. Instead of piercing the food with your fork and bringing it to your mouth, you should hold the fork in your left hand and use it to transfer food into your spoon on the other hand. Although knives are sometimes used, it’s not uncommon to use your fork and spoon to help cut up or break apart food. Also, don’t be surprised if many meals are self-serve or buffet style, especially in someone’s home. And although you might be used to cleaning your plate in western cultures, it’s better to leave a little food behind on your plate at the end of your meal, especially if you are eating at someone’s house since it’s a tells others that you’ve had enough food to eat. Also at the end of the meal, it’s normal to make conversation and really take your time socializing with the other guests instead of wanting to leave right after you finish the meal. It would be a good idea to thank the host before you leave and send a thank you card afterwards for the meal. At many restaurants, it’s normal for Filipino waiters to only refill drinks and bring the bill after taking and bringing orders. Many may not come back to ask if you need anything else but you can get their attention and they would be happy to help you then.
If traveling with a significant other, it might be wise to keep the public affection more restrained since it might be considered rude and in bad taste to kiss and hug in front of others. Also, shouting and aggressive behavior is not accepted like other busy cities in Asia so it’s better for exchanges in the Philippines to be more private and quiet.
One important similarity to keep in mind is that like many other Asian cultures, Filipinos value a large family unit and it is present in their daily lives.
