Thursday, December 3, 2009

Cultural Differences of the Philippines


Cultural Differences of the Philippines from Other Parts of Asia that Travelers Should Know

Because the Philippines isn’t widely known as a tourist destination yet, finding information about cultural differences and general etiquette may not be as easy as finding information about more popular places in Asia. For instance, in China and Japan the
China River Cruise and the attractions of Tokyo are more popular than ever. Whether you are familiar with the etiquette and differences of Asia or not, knowing the specific differences of the Philippines can help make your trip be a much more pleasant and less stressful experience.

Meetings and Greetings

Although some other Asian countries prefer to avoid shaking hands and bow their heads instead, Filipinos usually shake hands with a warm smile. Handshakes shouldn’t be too firm but more friendly. Like other Asian countries, much respect should be paid to elders so you should greet the elderly first. Instead of first names, you should always use academic or professional titles before their surname and you may be granted permission to use the person’s first name afterward. Hugs and kisses are usually only exchanged by female friends who know each other well. Handshakes should be given again when saying goodbye.

Dining

Instead of the popular chopsticks that are often associated with Asian countries, a fork and spoon are used during meals. But you may have to use the fork and spoon in a way that you may not be used to. Instead of piercing the food with your fork and bringing it to your mouth, you should hold the fork in your left hand and use it to transfer food into your spoon on the other hand. Although knives are sometimes used, it’s not uncommon to use your fork and spoon to help cut up or break apart food. Also, don’t be surprised if many meals are self-serve or buffet style, especially in someone’s home. And although you might be used to cleaning your plate in western cultures, it’s better to leave a little food behind on your plate at the end of your meal, especially if you are eating at someone’s house since it’s a tells others that you’ve had enough food to eat. Also at the end of the meal, it’s normal to make conversation and really take your time socializing with the other guests instead of wanting to leave right after you finish the meal. It would be a good idea to thank the host before you leave and send a thank you card afterwards for the meal. At many restaurants, it’s normal for Filipino waiters to only refill drinks and bring the bill after taking and bringing orders. Many may not come back to ask if you need anything else but you can get their attention and they would be happy to help you then.

If traveling with a significant other, it might be wise to keep the public affection more restrained since it might be considered rude and in bad taste to kiss and hug in front of others. Also, shouting and aggressive behavior is not accepted like other busy cities in Asia so it’s better for exchanges in the Philippines to be more private and quiet.

One important similarity to keep in mind is that like many other Asian cultures, Filipinos value a large family unit and it is present in their daily lives.

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Concepcion Sand Bar

Back Packing Philippines - Concepcion Sand Bar


It has been quite a long time since I have posted anything here. Being Busy with life and backpacking Philippines travel did not leave me enough time to post here anymore. But luckily the busy bee has gone of somewhere else.

This is one of the sandbars I've visited so far. I never thought we would have one near home.


(a view to behold in sunshine)

Place

It is located 30 min. offshore of mainland Concepcion, Iloilo, Philippines. It is a private Island, so it is a very quiet place. I suggest the company of friends and a bonfire gathering at night would make it more fun ( alcohol helps... plenty... lol ).

A white long stretch of sand and a calming air, mixed with clear sea water makes it a perfect adventure get away. And I will really stress on the "adventure" part.

Getting there

A piece of advice first. before planning any trip to the Island having a contact for their tourism department would be best. Since there are some strict issues and policies now being implemented by their local government.

After Asking ( nicely of course ) that you would like to travel to the sandbar island. These nice people would point you in the right direction to where the small boat going to the island is. And then wala, you are where you want to go.



I'll be sharing with you more backpacking tales since I've accumulated quite a few during the time I've been idle.